I write this today with the belief that the more honest I am, the more value I can bring to the world through what I share here.
Right now there is energy surging through my body. I’ve given up a very large weight that I’ve been carrying. It’s gone, just like that. Truly there are miracles in the world, and realisations like the one I’ve had today are among the greatest of those miracles. I feel blessed. I feel light. I feel alive.
I had, subconsciously, decided I deserved to carry a weight around forever, that is, the weight of hanging on in hope that a man would change his mind about me. If you refer to my previous blog, “Love and Truth”, some of you may have realised this. While I said I had moved on, my focus was still on being authentic around him, not just on being authentic. My focus was on how I could continue to love without attachment, but I was clearly still attached.
Today, all that changed when a simple thought crossed my mind.
I want whoever my life partner ends up being to be someone who is dazzled by me. Someone who sees through to my heart and lets me through to his. Someone who thinks about me often, calls just to check in, thinks up ways to adore me. Of course! I deserve all this and more. There’s only one of me, and whoever pairs off with me will be a very lucky man indeed.
The point being, though – I don’t want someone I have to convince. I don’t want someone I have to wait years for, just so that he’ll “come around” and recognize me. Whether or not he would ever even be capable of that is irrelevant anyway. Being convinced and being dazzled are two very different things. I know which one I want, and I know which one I deserve.
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Sadie Fulton is a 23-year-old with a massive vision for the world and a million different avenues she pursues to help get it there. She grew up traveling and has developed into a full-time activist, full-time lover of humanity, part-time musician, and she is now training to be a life coach. Above all, she wants to reach people and bring on a new era of love. If you want to share with her, get her perspective on something you are going through, or anything else at all, send her an email at sadie.fulton *at* gmail.com.